How to Meet and Date BBW in the US
Have you always had a fantasy of being with a big beautiful woman? You’re not alone! In fact, many guys have the same fantasy, especially since many celebrity BBWs have been appearing in TV shows, movies, music and in fashion magazines. Maybe you’ve always been attracted to women who were thick, curvy or even a few pounds overweight.
Many men certainly like BBWs and the “hourglass figure”, since they like women with bigger breasts and a bigger butt, which are characteristics of a thicker figure. Furthermore, many men are also known to love the physical “flaws” of a curvy woman, such as a slightly pudgy belly, cellulite and bigger hips. Maybe reality porn has contributed to this trend, since producers often cast women who are more “average looking” or like the “girl next door” and look less like super models.
Why so? Is it because men are intimidated or perhaps bored of the “perfect 10” model that they usually see in show business? Do they want to meet someone that looks more “average” like they do? Good theory…but that might not be the case. A better theory is that men don’t really care about physical perfection…they just like personality. And some of the sexiest and most likable women ARE, in fact, big and beautiful.
One thing’s for sure—there are many opportunities for you. You can reach out locally and try to find a compatible partner in local clubs, bars or meet up groups. This may be the traditional way to go, but a lot of people are shy nowadays and so they avoid mingling. This has given rise to the online dating website (or app).
Why Online Dating WorksUsing an online dating service allows you to find a match according to location, or shared interests, or compatible demographics and data. For example, one app might let you, a BBW, search for an African American man in fit condition. Or, perhaps the app lets you “swipe” between multiple profiles and choose only the ones you like the best. After swiping and getting a match you can start an online conversation and arrange for an in-person meeting or continue to chat and trade photos.
When it comes to dating, remember to be polite and charming…but be careful not to be too nice or boring. It’s usually good to project qualities like confidence, a good sense of humor, a relaxed presence and a teasing and playful personality. Too much formality may create awkward tension.
What may help is discussing matters online before you broach them in person. For example, it’s best to send good pictures online before ever meeting up in person. It’s better to discuss your likes and dislikes before meeting up. It’s also better to find someone that “matches you” in terms of smoking and drinking preferences, height, income level and race or even religion. Discussing these differences beforehand will ensure more communication and as we know, communication makes all the difference in a serious relationship!
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