The Truth about BBW Women
Big women carry an enormous burden that is not just about weight. From the moment they are a few pounds over the average scale, the first time they can grasp a hefty handful of flesh, they feel compelled to diet. If they were born a chubby girl, they spend a life-time feeling guilty and wondering why they can’t slim down when their best friend is skinny as a rail and can eat anything she wants.
The ninety-seven- pound best friend is zipping around at ninety miles an hour. She moves like a hot potato while the chubby girl just feels like a potato. That extra weight could also mean some extra heavy bones and a much slower metabolism than her friend. Fat BBW girls often devote themselves to exercise and recreational activities. As they grow up, they may still be fat, but extremely good at tests of strength and endurance.
Other fat BBW girls choose greater mental activity. They may excel at the academics or show astonishing talents in the arts or handcrafts. They become fat BBW with a lot of gifts to bring to the table.
The Lumps and BumpsNot all BBW women are fat women. Some just have a disproportionate amount of upper body or lower body weight. For American women, the weight displacement is often in the top. American women have the highest percentage of women with greater than a C-sized cup in the world. No amount of dieting brings down the size and her top-heavy proportions just get bigger with time.
Some women become bottom-heavy. This is often a hereditary factor, having to do with wide hip bones or the curvature of their spine. Horsewomen develop thick thigh muscles for riding that become thicker, with wider hips as she grows older.
BBW Women Aren’t Push-Over’sBig women often get targeted for their size. The men look at their big bosoms, big hips, or all around big, and think they must be easy or grateful to receive any attention at all. Size doesn’t change a woman’s personality. She still wants respect. She still wants acknowledgement of who she is as a person.
Although big women tend to be noticeable at any social gathering, no matter how much of a wall-flower they are, the best way to get to know them is to attend a meet-up for BBW and their interested fans. At meet-up’s, they can relax more, be themselves more without the unspoken public scrutiny that usually accompanies a big woman being introduced to a man.
The best places to find big, beautiful women are the places where big and beautiful is accepted as the norm. It’s not limited by demographics. In the big cities, there are communities where big and beautiful is culturally appealing and BBW girls are encouraged to flaunt their stuff.
It’s true that many big women still have difficulties in maintaining their self-esteem. Aggressive tactics don’t help. Taking advantage of her vulnerabilities doesn’t help. If you are truly a fat admirer and a BBW lover, your purpose is to be supportive so she can reach her full potential, and be happy you found a big, beautiful woman who loves you.
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